“If you just keep going after the really pretty ones, believe me your happiness will be at most temporary and the fruit you will bare will not be worth your labor. Worst of all, we will continue to neglect the rest of the beautiful women out there. Women who have so much more to offer than just really good looks. Women whose beauty is matched, inside and out. Women who believe that love, when truly found, is unconditional. They understand that it, like everything else, requires work, from both sides. These women are smart and talented and awesome in every way. They are the ones who deserve our love. Believe me, Olympus may never fall but there is far more beauty here on the Earth, we just need to stop staring up into the heavens.” via Thought Catalog, “Why the Really Pretty Ones Are Just Not Worth It“
Hello. I like what you just had to say, author of the quoted article.
But, let me remind you… let me remind you what Earth has to hold; those complicated women are scary, too.
Because the one I have in mind has lived in five different cities in just under ten years.
Her heart belongs to two, three, or maybe more, men who live in different corners of the world, and who they really are beyond the stories she’s made up to fill the in-between remains more of a mystery. But she loves mystery and much more than only a mental challenge.
Some things come easy to her; others are elusive. Love is the latter.
She can’t quite settle down yet. In fact, she left a city she saw a future with because she wanted to make sure it was the one. She’s full of restless energy, and she’s always running from one place to the next. No one has been able to give the chase their full focus, either. And in the end, who is really chasing whom?
Is it even a chase? Probably not.
Because the ones she wants are probably running the same restless race, and when their paths cross, no one’s sure if it’s just for a passing moment or if those paths will wrap back around and suddenly run parallel to one another.
She’s not sure what she’s running to–at least, she’s not completely sure.
And if that’s okay with you, then that more-than-just-a-pretty-face woman might be someone you want to get to know.
Better find her. Better get her attention. Better keep up with her.
Or, at least make it worth her while to slow down and match your pace.
(She’d probably enjoy the company.)