This article absolutely nails it in terms of what I find attractive, sexy, hot…
At some point this summer, a.k.a. #bestsummerever, something shifted, and the qualities that I’m looking for in a partner because much more identifiable and, beyond that, meaningful.
So, enjoy. I know I do.
1. A strong sense of self. An undeniably sound understanding of who they are and the confidence and charisma to express that without fear of what other people may sum it up to mean.
2. A physical appearance that’s more themselves than it is a syndicated version of some idealistic beauty that they saw somewhere, or that they were built to believe is what being attractive means. The most beautiful people are the ones who are more unapologetically themselves than they are a copy of someone else.
3. Being unafraid to say what they think, but being able to express such opinions with social grace and the knowledge that their opinion is not the only one that is valid, or that matters.
4. Being capable, not only of the little things, like how to drive stick or file taxes, but also of supporting themselves, leading healthy lives, communicating effectively, etc.
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